Humbling Gifts of Rejection & Failure

Oct 11, 2019 | Blog, Videos | 1 comment

Humbling Gifts of Rejection & Failure

In this video, Jesua shares about the gifts that come with the experiences of rejection and failure. By sharing her intimate journey of working to get her debut book published, she exposes the humbling process of receiving rejections and declines. Jesua reflects on the possibility of using the most challenging mirrors we receive from life to hone, strengthen, and clarify our deepest life prayer.

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